
The Power of Musical Play in Early Development
July 10, 2025Every Child’s Timeline: Natural Developmental Ranges
If your friend’s baby walked at 10 months and yours is still crawling at 14, rest assured that both are within the expected range. The average is 12 months, with early walkers on their feet by 9 months and others taking 17 months or more.
Above all, it’s important to remember: developmental ranges can vary significantly, and no chart can replace professional guidance. If you have concerns, there’s no reason to panic. It’s just an opportunity to seek advice from your pediatrician or Early Intervention program.
Milestones are guides, not deadlines. Children progress along wide, healthy ranges—shaped by genetics, temperament, environment, opportunity, and practice. What does “typical” really look like? It’s often your child arriving at developmental milestones on their own schedule.
Milestones are Guides, not Finish Lines
Milestones reflect what about 90% of children can do by a certain age, based on CDC guidelines (CDC Developmental Milestones). These guidelines are not deadlines; they are meant to help you notice progress and spot concerns early, but they’re not a race. The CDC’s checklists organize skills by age to make tracking simple and practical.
Why Do Children Develop at Different Rates?
- Biology: It’s just natural for children to vary in how quickly systems supporting movement, language, and self-regulation mature.
- Environment & opportunity: Consistent, responsive caregiving, time on the floor to move about, and play opportunities all shape skill growth.
- Temperament & motivation: Some children are cautious observers before trying new skills; others leap first and refine later.
- Health & birth history: Prematurity, medical factors, and sleep/nutrition patterns can shift the timeline.
Typical Windows (not deadlines)
Below are broad, common windows drawn from CDC milestone data. The best way to use them is to know you don’t have to be worried if your baby is a few months behind someone else’s child.
- Sitting: Most children sit without support between 6–9 months, but some may take until 12 months to sit independently or get into a sitting position. If your child is not sitting without support by 12 months or not getting into a sitting position independently by 12 months, discuss with your pediatrician.
- First words: Many children say a few words beyond “mama/dada” between 12–18 months. If your child isn’t attempting 1–2 words beyond “mama/dada” by 18 months or shows limited use of words, sounds, or gestures to communicate by that age, check in with your pediatrician. Gestures and non-verbal communication are important parts of language development.
- Walking: First steps can arrive anytime between 9–18 months. Walking without support by 18 months is typical, but later walking within this range can still be normal and healthy.
How to Support Development (with what you do every day)
The American Academy of Pediatrics calls play a “singular opportunity” to build social-emotional, cognitive, language, and self-regulation skills.
Try these everyday ways you can support childhood development
- “Serve-and-return” conversations: When your child babbles, points, or looks at something, respond with words and warmth.
- Floor time: Give daily chances to roll, reach, pivot, and pull to stand.
- Read and sing: Picture books, songs, and play with gestures helps to build attention and vocabulary.
- Let them try: Offer safe chances to climb, push, scoop, stack, and scribble.
- Follow their lead: Short, joyful playtimes lower stress and strengthen learning.
When to Check In—without panic
Trust your instincts. If something feels off, talk with your pediatrician. The CDC and AAP recommend standardized developmental screenings at 9, 18, and 30 months, autism-specific screenings at 18 and 24 months, and additional screenings at other well-child visits or whenever concerns arise. (AAP Screening Guidelines).
Reach out sooner if you notice:
- Not sitting without support or getting into a sitting position by 12 months
- No attempts at words, sounds, or gestures to communicate by 18 months
- Not taking independent steps by 18 months
- Loss of previously gained skills (e.g., regression in multiple skills or over some time).
- Persistent lack of eye contact or gestures (e.g., pointing, waving) in a way that seems unusual for your child’s age, especially if this is alongside other concerns.
TEIS Early Intervention is here to help
If you have questions about your child’s timeline, TEIS Early Intervention can help. Our specialists partner with families to turn everyday moments into growth opportunities, from tummy and bath time to the grocery aisle.
Call us at 412-217-8347 or ask your pediatrician about getting an Early Intervention evaluation.
At TEIS Early Intervention, our therapists listen to your concerns, assess your child’s individual needs, develop a customized treatment plan, and coach you along the way with simple, routine-based solutions to maximize your child’s development in their natural environment.
Early intervention evaluations and therapy services are available under the Federal Early Intervention Program for Infants and Toddlers with Disabilities. Before services can begin, an independent evaluation of your child must be completed. To ensure impartiality, one agency provides evaluation services while another offers therapeutic services.
To schedule an evaluation, call 1-800-692-7288 or email help@connectpa.net



